Another double-standard is the LC principle when brothers come to leave, to leave like gentlemen. Yet, when brothers do leave like gentlemen, the same is not reciprocated. Rather comes the generic reasoning why brother so and so left:
- unforgiven offenses
- unfulfilled ambitions
- negative
- opposing
- rebellious
- become cold to the ministry
- lost the vision
- attracted by the world
One of the symptoms is taking it personally when a brother or sister leaves. They're still a brother and sister. Just meeting with a different assembly.