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Old 04-10-2018, 02:16 PM   #33
kumbaya
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Default Re: Relationships/Courting

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[I]I personally believe 1 month is long enough to know if someone is marriage material or not. The human body is designed to produce chemicals of attraction when two people of the opposite sex spend enough time together...
One month is definitely not enough time to see past the “best version” of ourselves we all put up! Ha! No way, I’m sorry. I have a close friend who met and married someone quickly- only to find out after they married that he was bi-polar and she met him while he was in his “up” state. We all have highs and lows in life and I would suggest similar backgrounds as a naturally commonality and oil in your relationship (not for everyone- but many!), also- how do they react when they’re upset? What are their limits? What is taboo to them? Have you seen them upset? Stressed? In a rage of anger? Is one month enough time to see someone’s weaknesses as well as their strengths?
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