[Freedom]

Originally Posted by aron

In the LC, terms like "proper" and "positive" are dog whistles, cues to conditioned insiders as to what's going on and what's expected..

This is very true. I encountered numerous LC members who were more or less aware of some of the problems related to problems such as the meddling in relationships. But it was always excused as being necessary to keep people from making the wrong decisions. They will say that everything needs to be 'proper', but what that really means is just that everything needs to be by their terms.