[ZNPaaneah]

5 “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. 6 If you do not remain in me, you are like a branch that is thrown away and withers; such branches are picked up, thrown into the fire and burned. 7 If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. 8 This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples.

We "show ourselves to be disciples" by bearing fruit. You learn to be a farmer by farming, you learn to be a disciple by discipling. If you realize you are short on love, simply ask. We have a covenant with the Lord, as long as we are in His word, walking in Christ, you can ask for whatever you need and it will be given to you.