Relationships/Courting

[clever sister]

Originally Posted by Unregistered

I can so relate to many of the situations here being a church kid myself. I think that the whole treatment and handling of relationships in the local churches is the number one thing that caused me to start seeing all the flaws in the local church and eventually stop meeting....

I either know who you are, or know a sister who was in a similar situation to you. I look back and hope that I didn't give judgey vibes, but I remember being curious about the relationship status between these two, until the sister confided in me.
I don't think it is right that two people in a long term relationship should feel like they can't be open about it, just because they are not yet engaged.