LGBTQ, in LC and Beyond.

Originally Posted by Trapped

I wasn't going to ask about this since I'm not sure where some of the "that's too personal" lines are in this topic that's already of a very personal nature, but this was naturally one of the thoughts that came up in me when considering your relationship. Are you saying that your transgender wife has had surgery and physically appears more like that of a woman now (as far as anatomy that's usually covered up, rather than just, say, facial appearance)?

Sorry if this is crossing a line to ask. I'm genuinely trying to get a clear picture so my attempt to "walk a mile in your shoes" is more accurate.

No, I meant that her body is not a boy's body because it belongs to her and she is not a boy in any sense of the word.

And yes, asking someone what kind of genitals they have is usually considered crossing the line. I am not sure why you need to know this to "walk a mile in my shoes" unless you are interested in my sex life.

Now, there is a lot of variation in how open transgender individuals are about their transition. Some people don't tell others they are transgender unless they need to know while others post all about the surgeries they have had on the internet.

The things that my girlfriend is comfortable telling people is that she is transgender and that she takes estrogen.